Having learned a ton about the different option that are available to me, I have not come up with a definite decision of what I would like to use. I do, however, have a sense of peace because I am aware of the options I have to choose from and those that my doctor may recommend. I know that no matter what I choose, I will not feel guilty or "less of a mother" if I decided to have the epidural or other medicinal options. I have talked to mothers who said they felt obligated NOT to use medicine to assist with the pain. Most of these women were of older generations than myself, but by talking to them I have definitely decided that will not affect my decision. I believe that when times change and new "technology" (in a sense) is available, one should become educated about the new ideas and make your decision based on that. I was saddened to hear that some women were guilty ridden during their labor and delivery process.
During the webbing process, I found many resources that wanted to push the alternative options for pain control. I liked the information that was provided. It was very thorough and detailed on how and why the method is beneficial. I still however, kept an open mind to the bias that was trying to be set. I know that everyone has their own opinion, but as I stated above, I must educate myself and then make my decision based on the information not the opinions of others!! Lamb states that when in the wiggling process the information must be evaluated and the "twist(ed) and turn(ed)" to find the "clues, ideas, and perspectives" the author is communicating. By looking for bias and seeing past it, I feel I have gathered the information and used it to further my knowledge.
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It is great to see how you are informing yourself with research, but not necessarily letting it form your opinion. Because of this, I believe you will end up making the right decision for you and your baby. You are going to be a GREAT mom!! You may have already said, but, do you have any names picked out?
ReplyDeleteJanuary,
ReplyDeleteI remember feeling so overwhelmed with making all the right choices for my babies. It is so hard because you just want to do the right thing - and it is different in this case for each mom. For me, I knew my pain tolerance was way too low for me to endure labor without an epidural! I had several people (both young and experienced moms) condemn me for my choice. Again, they made the decision that was right for them.
One of my best friends decided to have no pain control - I was in the delivery room with her for both her girls (maybe that's why I knew I couldn't handle it!) and she was in with me for both of mine. Even though we disagreed, we knew we each did what we felt was right for our babies. The best part? We have four healthy girls between us!
I'll be praying for a healthy and safe delivery for you! Congratulations!
Krista
January:
ReplyDeleteI apologize...I'm tired and keep making the same mistake.
Best wishes in making your decision. You appear to be very level-headed and open to various options. I think that everyone should go into the birthing process with an open mind and a willingness to do what is right for them and their baby.
January, ignore all of the voices that are trying to scare you. Women tell birthing stories for the same reason fishermen tell "the one that got away stories".
ReplyDeleteI actually think that maybe having the distractions of class and work will remind you that you are more than a pregnancy.
Very interesting reading about your inquiry. The information you gather will really help you when the time comes. I remember when my oldest was born in 1979, I didn't have a lot of information about my options. (the internet in 1979 wasn't quite like it is now:) Having information can help alleviate anxiety for sure!
ReplyDeleteDuring my first pregnancy, I had tried not to take anything. Eventually, I did take something to "take the edge off" as the nurse put it. But when I got the medicine, I was really loopy. I even asked my husband if I had fallen asleep at one point. Needless to say that did not happen the other times. I am glad you are taking the time to learn about all your options.
ReplyDeleteTerri
Thank you all so much for the words of encouragement!! I am a very logical person, but not sure if that will still be the case when dealing with labor pain :) Anyway, this is how I am preparing for that possibility!!
ReplyDeleteAs for names, we have a pretty good idea what her name will be. But we are keeping it a secret until her birthday!
Thanks again!!